Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage According to Kundali
One of India’s greatest contributions to the world of science is Astrology. Though there were scientists from other parts of the world who were engaged in studying the planets etc., it was the ancient Indian findings on astronomy and through it, the science of predicting the future, based on the planetary positions, called astrology, was developed. Within the Indian astrology, which is followed even today, a person’s entire life-cycle can be predicted. For doing this, the person’s horoscope or kundali is needed. A kundali can be read to know if the person will end up having a love marriage or arranged marriage. Here are more details on love marriage or arranged marriage according to kundali.
What is a Kundali and What is its Significance?
A kundali or a horoscope is a single page document that has two squares in it and it depicts the position of the different planets at the precise time of the person’s birth. Very traditional families in India would take help from the nurses who assist during deliveries at the hospitals to note the precise hour, minute and if possible second at which the child is delivered. They then take these details to their family astrologer who will draw the horoscope. He will have the record showing the planetary positions at that time and will be able to draft a near perfect kundali for the child, boy or girl.
The only point to be noted is that the astrologer will rely on the information provided by the parents of the child to prepare the kundali. Nowadays, you have computer software that can prepare and printout kundalis and most astrologers have adopted this technology as well. But here again the key input is the time and place of birth. If that is wrong, then the kundali itself could be wrongly drafted. Anything you read hereon is on the assumption that the kundali is perfect by itself.
Love or Arranged Marriage Prediction by Kundali
Over the past half a century, the ratio of arranged marriages in Indian households to love marriages has just reversed. If just around 10-15% love marriages used to be reported till the 60’s and 70’s, it is now around 70 to 80% and arranged marriages have dropped to around 20%. But it cannot be denied that there is a change in the mindset of the parents as well and in many cases, when a boy and a girl love each other, the parents on both sides sit together and convert it into a type of arranged marriage only. This way, everyone is happy.
How Can Kundali Indicate Love Marriage?
Experienced astrologers can read the kundali of an individual and decipher if she or he will settle for an arranged marriage or prefer to go for love marriage. This is done through the planetary configuration in their kundali. The technique lies in identifying which planet is positioned in which house. By ‘house’ here it is meant the column within the squares on the kundali. They are represented by numbers. Planets like Venus and Mars have strong influences in the person’s personality depending on where they find themselves in the kundali chart. Astrology predicts that if a person’s kundali indicates that Venus is in the 7th house, then that person will be quite passionate.
Being passionate can be extended to mean a strong desire for love and even sexual inclinations and love marriage seems plausible. This is just one example. You must consider how the other planets like Saturn are placed in relation to Venus. These are known and understood by the experts and they can tell you in full details how your married life will pan out.
Who Should Consult Astrologer?
To know love marriage or arranged marriage according to kundali, usually parents approach the astrologer. In most cases the parents of girls get worried about their daughter’s future and would want to know which way their daughter’s marriage will settle. In a few cases, the parents may be coming under pressure from their relatives with regard to a boy being the right match for their daughter. But parents may fear that if they commit to the relatives but their daughter has love marriage in her kundali then the entire relationship will come under stress. In the North Indian conservative families there is something called “baradari”, which is family bonding and they wouldn’t like to lose that bonding. That becomes one reason to be sure their daughters and sons don’t let them down. A good astrologer can give them the correct reading of the kundali and also the appropriate advice too.
Can Things Be Changed?
One question that might rankle in your mind could be can one change the course of a person’s life? In this context, for example, can a boy or girl whose kundali is indicating will have love marriage be changed to arranged marriage? Well, a person’s kundali cannot be altered. It is a destiny one brings with his or her birth. There are only two possibilities; one is that the kundali has been wrongly drafted. The other could be that the reading of the kundali by the astrologer might have been erroneous.
You must understand that while Astrology itself is a perfect science, astrologers may not be that perfect. That is why you must seek the best in the business. Go with the family astrologer you have been consulting for generations. Or you can check the online resources to find someone with impeccable credentials to do the kundali reading for you. Astrologers receive their knowledge and training from their superiors, but they have to have some divine blessings to be successful in what they do. They have to offer special prayers to God to obtain the powers to correctly analyse horoscopes and predict the future of persons.
In the case of love marriage or arranged marriage according to kundali, what everyone looks for is happiness for the couple. Irrespective of how the marriage is decided, through love or by family arrangement, the husband and wife must live happily, love each other immensely and grow a healthy family. If the kundali indicates all these, the rest are immaterial.